Sunday, May 26, 2024

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Week 20 Prompt - Preserve

2024

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks

Week 20

Prompt – Preserve

There are a several different things that you can do to preserve your family tree. Let's start with your photographs. Make sure their name(s) are attached to the photograph and then a date that the photograph was taken, if possible. Otherwise you end up with photo albums full of beautiful portraits of people you don't know. My mother-in-law has two photo albums she inherited from her grandmother. I call them Clara's Photo Albums of Unknown People. When I was scanning these photographs I asked Clara to explain who these people were. Unfortunately she did not know. Her comment was “gee, I wished I paid attention when my grandmother showed me the photos”. All she knew were they were family members from Germany. 


 




Clara is related to these unknown individuals.  My guess is the photographs were taken late 1890's to 1910 era. 




 



 

 

 I am now in the process of organizing, dating (if possible) and scanning all of the bags and boxes of photographs, letters and some documents that we brought back from clearing out Clara's apartment. I must admit that it seems monumental. It is also exciting to go through them.

Besides photographs to keep track of, there is the physical things that one might possess that have been handed down through the generations. I believe that most generation-old artifacts come with the story firmly attached. Sometimes those stories are true and sometimes they might be embellished. It would be best if we could write their story.

While Bill and I were helping Clara with her move to the nursing home, we had a chance to go through so many gems. As it turns out it is usually the most unassuming thing that has the best memories. Clara had set aside a dish that she wanted to be sure that Bill got. It was a clear glass divided dish. It is the type that may hold condiments at a dinner table. It seemed like an odd thing to give to Bill. She told us that this dish was a Christmas present that Bill had given to her. Clara told us that Bill was quite proud of this gift because he told her it was the first gift that he had bought for her with his own money that he earned working at McDonald's. Clara was quite appreciative of his gift. She said she used it often and always remembered that it was a gift from Bill. I asked Bill about it and of course he doesn't remember it at all. I remember seeing it at many of the dinners we enjoyed with them. I'm sure we would have given it away during the clean up. Clara made sure Bill got it and why he did. One never knows what is precious and needs to be preserved. 


 

Wendy





Thursday, May 16, 2024

2024

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks

Week 19 

Prompt - Taking Care of Business

It was exhausting. It was emotional.
Last week Bill, myself, my daughter, Jill assisted Bill's sister, Norma move Clara into a level 2 nursing home. Clara lived at Luther Tower in Saskatoon. It is an independent senior high rise residence. Her apartment was a one bedroom with a full kitchen where she could make her own meals. The top floor was a dining room where meals could be had for a fee. The dining room was on the 22nd floor of this tower. In my opinion it had the most spectacular views of Saskatoon. She dined with her friends from
Luther Tower. It was nice to be served and not have to worry about the cooking or the dishes. She enjoyed many of her suppers here. Bill and I and other family members also had the privilege of dining with her on those occasions we were visiting.
Clara and Tony had moved to Saskatoon from Killaly, Saskatchewan after their honeymoon in October of 1952. Originally they lived in a basement suite. Within a few years they moved to a home on Hanover Street in Saskatoon. In the fall of 1964 the family moved into their brand new home on Park
Avenue. They raised their family in this house. Soon her children were married and the grandchildren came to be spoiled by their grandparents. Many, many happy memories were made here.
Unfortunately and sadly, Tony died of cancer in the fall of 1992 just a few months short of their 40th Anniversary. Clara was determined to continue living in this home as a widow. It was a home of more happy memories than sad. Clara did an exceptional job of staying in her home. We had put in place some help such as lawn maintenance and snow shovelling. However most times Clara had cleared the snow from her sidewalks and long driveway before the team showed up. She tended to her beautiful garden of flowers and vegetables.
One December she took a fall in her home and broke her leg. Her only mobility was in a wheelchair. This kept her inside the house and only on the main floor until spring with the occasional outing for doctor appointments. Then she would depend on some elderly church congregants (I'm not kidding) to come to the house to carry her down her front entrance steps. Both entrances were accessed by a set of stairs which she could not use. Her laundry was downstairs and again some church friends came and
did her laundry. It was without a doubt a very difficult time being a single senior without family in town. With some gentle nudging Clara decided it was maybe a good time to move to an apartment with easy access by elevators. She had managed her home for approximately 12 years.
Clara had a momentous task of downsizing before she could move. Tony use to say of Clara that she kept everything including the box from their first wedding gift they ever received. Norma spent many weekends in Saskatoon helping her mother downsize, donate, recycle and trash her excess of a lifetime of living. They had several garage sales. Bill and I were there for one of them. Clara's church friends were there during the sale. They seemed to have a good time chatting and remembering their lives.
They were with her to support her in this momentous decision she had made. I'm sure it was difficult but she embraced it as a better move.
She moved into an apartment. At first she was in a 2 bedroom ground floor apartment. It did not feel safe for her so when an upper level 3 bedroom became available she moved into it. This was a great place for her. She had the extra room to set up as her sewing room. It had a lovely dining room where we enjoyed her lovely home cooked meals. Her balcony was filled with many flourishing flower pots.
She was still able to drive. She had her church friends to visit. She was a very active member of the church. It was her social life.
She was very physically active. She had her treadmill set up in a room which she used every day putting on 2 kilometres each day. She was on very few if any prescription medications. However she
had quickly developed macular degeneration. Sadly her eyesight was going. Again we had to gently suggest that she give up her driver's license. She really didn't want to become dependant on anyone.
She gave up her license and begun to look at Luther Tower for a place to live. After 6 years in the 3 bedroom apartment an one bedroom apartment became available and on September 1, 2011 she moved into Luther Tower. Again she needed to downsize. Once again Norma helped her go through her apartment and decide exactly what she needed. Her sewing machine and a bedroom full of fabric to sew was given away. She could no longer sew because of her eyesight. This was incredibly sad for her
as it was truly one of her great loves in her life. Her new place at Luther Tower was obviously smaller, but somehow she managed to take a lot of her things to her new apartment. She had previously known many of the residents and through morning coffee chats and the activities such as singing, church
services, movie nights, birthday celebrations, cards etc, she made more friends. There was much too keep her occupied and she participated to the fullest. In summertime she enjoyed walking outside around the block. And in winter she would go up to the dining room first thing in the morning and do laps. During Covid when they were isolated in their rooms for several months she told us that she would do her exercising by walking back and forth between her chair and the door. 50 times in the morning and another 50 later in the day.
Over the past 13 years or so her eyesight has almost gone. However she is so stubborn what little sight she has she uses to read her bible or novels. It is hard to believe she can read at all. She played cards at least 3 nights each week and won often. During this time her hearing started to decline and she has
relied on a hearing aid to hear anything at all.
We had noticed in the past several years that she was becoming more frail. She fell a few times and once fracturing several ribs. Her balance was not quite as good as it once was. And after much
prompting she finally used her walker all the time. Much to our relief. She still had the odd fall.
She moved more and more slowly as time went by. She seemed quite short of breath on occasion and needed some medications for angina. Stubbornly she carried on. Again we put in place some things to help her live in her place.
Alas it became painfully obvious that she might need more care than she was getting in her independent living arrangement. After all she had just turned 96 at her last birthday in March.
Norma's email to us dated April 2, 2024:
“Updates on care:
We had the meeting with the tower services coordinator and the social worker on Friday morning. They did an awesome job of chatting with mom on how she has been managing and
bringing her around to the idea of intermediate care. Her preference is to get into the building across the street if needed, so she agreed to put her name on the wait list now.
If there was a medical episode or fall she would not have a choice - would have to move to wherever there is a room available, and that could be anywhere.
They did tell her that when something comes open she will have a bit of time to think about whether to accept without losing her place on the wait list. I think that is where we will need to come in and encourage her to accept. Frankly if they have to do an ability
assessment even now she would most likely not qualify to stay at the tower, so the time has come.
She is familiar with that building as that is where Winnie was for some time and she visited regularly. I will arrange for a tour myself for the next time I’m out in Saskatoon probably mid
April, assuming no openings come up in the mean time.”
Winnie was her life long friend from Killaly. At this time Clara was outliving most if not all good friends. The down side of longevity.
Then on April 15 Norma sent this email;
FYI - I just had a call from the social worker at the tower that they have an opening across the street. We have been given first dibs, and they called me before talking with mom. I’ve asked them to let mom know, and that she and I can talk about it and decide next
week when I’m in Saskatoon. I’m hoping that she will be in favor of accepting the move, as there is no telling when the next room would come available. If she brings it up in your phone conversations please try to convince her that this is the right time to move, rather than in an emergency should something happen, where there would be no choice on location So some thoughts on logistics: I can probably drive back out to Saskatoon at the beginning of May to coordinate moving her over. Would then do at least an initial sort and pack to bring some things back here for storage. I think I would aim to go back out later in May to
get rid of furniture, etc, to release the suite by the end of the month. I’m pretty sure that they will be planning on renovations to her suite before it is re-let, so no huge hurry.”
Clara did not want to take this opening. She wanted to stay at the tower until fall. Norma had to go back to Saskatoon to discuss it with Clara. The whole point was to “convince” her that she should go.
Norma emailed us on April 24 to say this:
“So decision has been made to accept the opening across the street. It took some convincing, but I emphasized that all of us would worry at lot less knowing she had more help and
assistance. Also stressed the need to move while she still has a bit of vision so it’s easier to get used to new surroundings. She’s not really happy about it, but I think resigned to the necessity.
So, I’ve done the paperwork to give notice on her current unit for May 31. We have a meeting booked across the street tomorrow afternoon to sign paperwork there and get all the move in information.
Plan now is for me to drive back to Saskatoon May 5, spend a couple of days getting her clothes and things to move organized, and actually move her over about May 8 or 9. I’ll start on more cleanup for a day or two before heading home.”
As Norma said, her mother was not happy about moving. Her stubbornness did not work out this time.
We joined Norma for about 4 or 5 days to help with the move. It was so sad knowing she did not want to leave the tower. She looked defeated. As she told Bill her world keeps getting smaller with each move. Never truer words were spoken. Her new place was just a bedroom with a bed and dresser. She could bring over her clothes and toiletries plus a few pictures, her chair and television. That is where we started. We went through her clothes with her. We had to explain each piece as she could barely see
them. She would feel them. We had to get her to give up a lot of her clothes. She was overwhelmed, sad and had great difficulty deciding. Her silence was heartbreaking. It took a few days to get through it. Then we went on to picking out a few pictures for her new place. That was about all the stuff she could take.
The remaining things, which was everything was up to us to go through. It was either keep and pack it to take home, donate to Goodwill, or put out in the garbage. We had hoped to do this when she was not with us, but it didn't work out this way. Norma had a pretty good handle on those precious things that family members wanted. But then there was “everything else”. Her pantry and fridge had to be disposed of although she was not privy to that. She hadn't cooked in such a long time that things were post dated, stale or just plain questionable. Many of her knick knacks had a story that she shared with us. Her memory is sharp to remember all the stories. Those were very special moments. But mostly she just sat silently in her chair.
Soon as we had sorted through the special things we started on cupboards, drawers, closets etc. She has so much 'stuff'. Every drawer we opened was packed full to the brim. She had letters, documents, among her clothing, shoes and purses. It had to be sorted carefully. It was exhausting for Clara and for us. We filled more than 5 banker boxes with her photo albums and that was not all of them. Jill has them as she wants to go through them and then I will find those photos that will be good for genealogy
and scan them. But I also took 3 or more grocery bags of documents and important things to go through.
By Thursday afternoon we were able to take Clara across the street to her new home. She was sad, anxious and to be honest scared. She was so short of breath by the time she got there it was alarming.
There only about 16 residents in this place and the aide was trying to introduce her to everyone. I had to tell her she couldn't see and hear very well. It was all overwhelming Clara. It was supper time so they got her settled for that and then after supper, Norma took her to her room to help her find where everything was. She was tired and went to bed shortly after that.
We did not get through half of the things in her old place. So much stuff. Don't forget that her furniture had to go too. Norma is going back again before the end of the month to finish clearing it out. Also Norma has been working overtime to get Clara's financial things in place. She has helped close down  the tower apartment and set up the new home. She has set up her prescription blister packs and so so much more business things. I would have to say that Norma was / is taking care of business. It
has been very taxing. When she is back in Saskatoon next week she has to take her mom to a dental and medical appointment. And she is getting more difficult to move about.
By the time, Bill, Jill and I were going home we were overwhelmed and exhausted. Really more mentally than physically. I can't imagine sitting there and watching your stuff being categorized and sent away. The things she surrounded herself for all her life. It was now not needed and not useful. It made me think about what life is all about if this is how it ends up. Jill and I think we should start giving our precious things away now while we are in control. Not a bad idea.
Clara has / had so much stuff and we have so much more.
All I keep saying is, for the love of God get rid of your stuff now.

Wendy

Helping Clara Pick Clothes for Move

 



One Last Lunch at Luther Tower Dining Room

Bill With His Mother Helping Her out of Her Apartment One Last Time




Sunday, May 12, 2024

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Week 18 Prompt - Love and Marriage

2024

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks

Week 18

Prompt – Love and Marriage

Bill's maternal great-grandparents. Johann Jahnke and Emilie Hein were both born in Bromberg, Posen, Prussia, Germany. Johann Jahnke served his mandatory German military service. He started on 4 Nov 1874 and was discharged 22 Sep 1887. He returned to Bromberg. I do not know how they met. I do know that Johann Jahnke and his brother, Leonhardt Jahnke married twin sisters – Emilie and Amalie Hein. Johann and Emilie married on April 20, 1890. 

Emilie and Johann Jahnke

 April 20, 1890
Bromberg, Prussia

They immigrated to United States and arrived in November 1891. This couple moved from Ulen, Minnesota to Killaly, Saskatchewan to Entwistle, Alberta, to Hatton, Saskatchewan, to Gibbon, Minnesota and finally settling in Yakima, Washington.

They celebrated their Golden Anniversary in Yakima, Washington on April 20, 1940.

Emilie and Johann Jahnke 


 

 Photographs taken on April 20, 1940.

 

 

 
 

 
Emilie and Johann Jahnke

 


 

 

 

 

 

Bill and I were recently helping his mother move into a level 2 nursing home from her apartment. One of the many hanging photos was this beautiful framed 50th Wedding Anniversary commemorative piece. It was a beautiful gift and unfortunately we don't know who had this made for John and Emilie Jahnke. It has embossed silver and gold leaf wreath. Inside the wreath is a Bible verse in German. On the bottom is written Johann Jahnke and Emilie Hein. 1890 – April 20 – 1940. This keepsake had been inherited by Bill's mother, Clara Hoffart from her father, Arthur Jahnke who inherited it from his mother, Emilie Jahnke. 


 

Wendy


Saturday, May 4, 2024

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Week 17 Prompt - War

2024

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks

Week 17

Prompt – War

Mennonites were conscientious objectors commonly known as “CO's”. Their religion forbid military service or going to war. The Mennonites had signed papers from Canada (1873) accepting their demand of no military service for their men. Not unlike the “school problem”, the Mennonites faced great criticism for being CO's. In 1917 The Military Service Act was in place and demanded compulsory service. Exemptions were ill defined in this Act. Mennonites still had to register, but write Mennonite across the card for exemption purposes. These cards were filled out and signed by the Mennonite minister. Some ministers were less scrupulous than others. Some sold them for money and others just falsified the legitimacy of exemption status.

A tribunal judge was quoted as saying in the Newspaper Clipping from Winnipeg Tribune dated January 4, 1918 had this heading;

“Myers Insists on Mennonites Going To War. Tribunal Judge Avers – They Will Fight if He Can Force Them to Do.”

Judge Myers was also quoted as saying “Their religion is just a cloak to evade military Service. It is not because of their religion, or because they go to any particular church that they want exemption. They just don't want to go.”

In fact on March 28, 1921, “Manitoba Great War Veterans” sent a petition to the federal government wanting to deport all Mennonites and Hutterites who refuse to assume all citizenship in Canada (ie. Military Service).

The Mennonite Military exemption created public backlash and anger all across Canada. The suspicion of these “German – Speaking” aliens was everywhere. There was already a ban on written German publications. Police often observed their church services looking for those who were part of the enemy German people wanting to infiltrate Canada.

Part of the backlash came when Mennonites from the United States starting returning to Canada. United States did not have the military exemption like Canada Mennonites. The government had to put in place an order-in-council to address exactly who would be exempt. The anger, resentment and suspicion was best caught in this newspaper article from Vancouver Daily World dated September 28 1918.


 

This attitude of distrust and anger persisted for many years. It was not only the Mennonites who were recipients of this, but in general all German Speaking groups. Bill's maternal grandfather and great-grandfather ran a general store in Hatton, Saskatchewan circa 1913. His great-grandfather was John Jahnke who immigrated from Bromberg, Prussia in the 1890's. His son, Arthur Jahnke was born in Winthrop, Minnesota a year after the family immigrated to the States. The family were predominantly German speaking. Eventually they ended up in Hatton, Saskatchewan. John Jahnke opened up a general store called J. Jahnke General Merchandise. A few years later it was bought by son, Arthur and his cousin, Julius Jahnke. The name became A. & J. Jahnke Dry Goods. 

 
Lt to Rt: John, Arthur and Julius Jahnke. Good Day Duck Hunting
John Jahnke was a restless soul and decided to move back to Winthrop, Minnesota. They took a train from Hatton and ended up in Seattle, Washington where he bought a 1916 Maxwell car. Driving in their new car, they explored northern California and ended up in Gibbon, Minnesota where he bought another store. He named this store “Famous”. 

 
I asked Bill's mother why it was not named like his Hatton, Saskatchewan store – J. Jahnke. She told me that this was during the time when Germans were ostracized and he thought it would harm his store business if his name "Jahnke" was included. Thus he chose this. 

Wendy




Friday, April 26, 2024

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Week 16 Prompt - School

 2024

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks

Week 16

Prompt – School

My father, Jake Peters was born in 1917 in Hague, Saskatchewan; presumably on a Mennonite Colony. My father was essentially illiterate and according to his WWII papers achieved only a public school grade 4 level by the age of 16 or in another part of these attestation papers it said he had passed Grade 2 public school by 1932. He was taken out of school to help out on the farm because his father had hurt his back. School was no longer a choice for him.

Was the colony the reason for the lack of his education? Mennonites taught their own children in their language in their schools with their teachers who were not educated beyond what they learned in their Mennonite School. The government did everything to break the Mennonite private schools. In fact this was the reason that there was a migration by the “old colony” Mennonites to Mexico. My great-grandfather, his wife and his children including my father were not one of the ones who immigrated to Mexico with the rest of Old Colony.

THE PROMISE

 In 2015, a letter was discovered in the basement of a Steinbach, Manitoba Mennonite office. It was a letter dated July 24, 1873. It was the original letter from Canada to the Mennonites in Russia listing their exemptions and privileges they could have in Canada.

“A close look at the brittle pages reveals something else. Three of the 15 numbered provisions have been marked with small X’s, as though someone chose to single them out for special attention. Highlighted are exemptions from military service and the swearing of legal oaths. But perhaps the most significant article singled out is the one offering Mennonites “the fullest privilege of exercising their religious principles . . . without any kind of molestation or restriction whatever,” along with the freedom to educate their children in their own schools.”

                 -From Canadian Mennonite Magazine. Volume 19, Issue 23.

THE IMMIGRATION

The Mennonites were convinced that Canada had promised all those things that they held important for the sustainable Mennonite Colony. The first wave of Mennonites immigrated to Manitoba from Russia between 1874 and 1876. On July 18, 1875 my great-grandfather, David Peters, his wife and children arrived in Manitoba. My grandfather, Franz Peters was born July 29, 1876 in Plum Coulee, Manitoba.

MANITOBA AND SASKATCHEWAN SETTLEMENT

The praises of the Mennonites were noted. They acclimatized to the treeless Manitoba prairie finding it similar to the Russian Steppes they just left. The population increased rapidly and by the early 1890's they were setting up new colonies in Saskatchewan in the Hague – Osler area. They settled quickly developing villages, homes, churches and schools within the first few years of arrival.

THE PROBLEM WITH SCHOOLS

The school teachers in their new colonies of Manitoba and Saskatchewan were chosen by the colony leaders and of course the teachers were Mennonites who rarely had any greater education than they were taught. The teachers were under a one year contract. School year started after spring seeding and lasted about a month and because the summer and fall were busy times on the farms the school was on hold until about mid October after harvest.The teachers perks were a free dwelling for them and their family with free fuel for heating, free pastures for his cows, 100 bushels of wheat and barley and free schooling for his children. They also had a small salary that was assessed and collected by the parents of the school attendees.


“In their opinion, the children learned most of what they needed to know for the chosen way of life from their mothers and fathers, in the kitchen, in the garden,in the barn, and in the fields. And that part of the education was thorough and effective. The schools were there to provide only what was needed in addition, namely an essential amount of reading, writing, arithmetic, Bible stories, and language. Physical education and other extras of the public school were not only unnecessary but harmful, in as much as school marches were akin to the military drill and school sports programs drew the children away from their homes and communities. And whatever professional qualifications the teachers lacked were made up for by the qualities of character and the genuine love for children so characteristic of their communities.”

-   Found in Mennonites of Canada 1920 – 1940 by Frank H. Epp.

In the beginning in the 1870's Manitoba ( and Saskatchewan) had two different school designations; a Catholic School System and Protestant School Systems. The protestant was pretty much every other denomination together. Thus Mennonites were considered Protestant and received government funds for their schools.

In 1890, the Manitoba government passed “Manitoba Schools Act”. Essentially it created a single, non-denominational school system and to be taught in English. It was called a public school and all education moneys was from then on, only forwarded to these public schools and cut off the “private schools” such as Mennonite schools.

Initially after the passing of The Manitoba Act, the Mennonite Colonies were visited by government officials to report back how these “peculiar peoples” live.

In the Winnipeg Free Press dated September 19, 1895 one such government official reported his findings.

 

I believe Frank H. Epp said it best in his book, Mennonites of Canada 1920 -1940. A Struggle For Survival
“Mennonites objecting to the public school did so for similar reasons. Sacred to them were such things as their religion and culture in general, the agricultural way of life, the German language, and pacifism in particular. As they saw it, the public school pointed to Anglo-Canadianism rather than German- Mennonitism, to urbanization rather than the rural life, to militarism rather than pacifism, to ostentation rather than the simple lifestyle they and their ancestors in the faith had always advocated. The public school also pointed in the direction of other unwanted "worldly" influences and, what was worst of all, social integration and ultimate assimilation. From that perspective they had no choice but to resist the public school.” 

BETRAYAL AND PASSIVE RESISTANCE

 The Mennonites were shocked because they had been given a promise in 1873 and that now is being eroded by governments. The push by government to assimilate them was met with a Mennonite passive resistance. The Mennonites soon found out that educational jurisdiction was switched to the provincial government and not the dominion by order-in-council under the BNA. Thus their promise of teaching their children in their language in their schools and their curriculum was now invalid.

Over the next couple of decades the Mennonites showed resistance to the public schools cropping up in and around their colonies. The province continued to push and coerce the Mennonites to come around to public schools. The colony began to break down. The old colony Mennonites were immovable on English taught public schools for their children. The fringes of this colony was worn down after several years. They were called “Progressive Mennonites”. In so doing these colonist were excommunicated from the “Old Colony” church and essentially cut off from all help financially and otherwise by his colony.



SCHOOL ATTNENDANCE ACT

In 1916 in Manitoba and 1917 in Saskatchewan, the School Attendance Act was passed. Attending school was mandatory for girls from the ages of  7 to 12 and boys 7 to 14. Passive resistance continued but the government pushed back even harder. Fines were being levied against the Mennonite parents who didn't send their children to the public schools. The Mennonites chose not to pay the fines.

In the Saskatoon Daily Star Newspaper dated 4 Sep 1918. it states that the department of education found the solution by building the new schools in their colonies.

 

 In the fall of 1918 the government had enough with the Mennonites and their blatant refusal to send their children to Public Schools.and wrote this in the Leader-Post.


 



 
 
Over the next few years, passive resistance turned into civil disobedience which were met by fines by the truancy officers. The fines were levied and they refused to pay them. They were prosecuted and the Mennonites became Martyrs. Between 1920 and 1925 there was over 4000 prosecutions brought forward to the courts. In 1921 over 1800 prosecutions were handed down to the Mennonites forcing them to pay $13,150.

At the same time many Mennonites had put forward many appeals to all levels of Canada Courts. The lawyers for the Mennonites was not successful and all appeals fell in favour of the government.

This left the "Old Colony" Mennonites with no choice but to immigrate yet again. In the Saskatoon Star-Phoenix dated January 15, 1921, the headline was.  

My father's family chose not to immigrate to Mexico despite many from their colony immigrating yet again.  Dad would have taken school in Saskatchewan Public School in English even though he only knew German.  The Old Colony values would have stayed with the family. Helping on the farm was way more important than school.  

Wendy









Monday, April 15, 2024

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Week 15 Prompt - Favourite Recipe - Part 2

2024

 52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks

Week 15

Prompt - Favourite Recipe - Part 2

There are a few more recipes that I received at that bridal shower so many years ago.  I thought I would share them as well. I am just trying to get back on track with my weeks because I am slightly behind.  



Wendy

Thursday, April 11, 2024

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks Week 14 Prompt - Favourite Recipe

2024

52 Ancestors in 52 Weeks

Week 14

Prompt – Favourite Recipe - Part 1

 In the spring of 1975 just before my husband and I were to be married, I had a surprise bridal shower. The Saskatoon St. Paul's Lutheran Church ladies hosted it for me. We were to be married in this church and we held our wedding reception in the church basement served by the “church ladies”. Also Bill and his family were regular members of the church. I did not know more than half of the ladies who attended. Those who attended were asked to bring their favourite recipe printed out on an index card. I received quite a collection. I set them aside inside one of the dishes I got. It was several months before I actually pulled them out and read them. 

 

What can I say? Truly I have spent more than a week trying to figure out how to blog or even comment on this. There are no words....So I have decided to take them as a religious tongue-in-cheek advice recipes and, I guess, they are meant to be cute. 

I wanted to find out who authored this and when did it come out. I turned to google and really did not expect to find much of anything. And as an aside and after the fact I had some trepidation about entering it into google. Maybe it would be interpreted as something as nefarious as preserving a “dead husband”. Oi! I was surprised that there were so many entries in google. Here are a few that I had found.

I found a newspaper article from The San Francisco Call and Post dated Tuesday, January 17 1905, Page 8;“To Preserve a Husband”. 

This suggests a wife should choose an American Variety over a foreign one. Apparently he should go through a long engagement to make him easier to handle. Also the wife should gently detach him from his old acquaintances and change his old ways.  According to this recipe the women of 1905 had to do a lot of work to get and keep a husband. 

I found a blog by Susan Anthony called "How to Cook a Husband". She found this recipe in a cookbook called "Yankee Kitchen Cookbook" from the 1800's. She suggests he can be spoiled by mismanagement. Also she suggests you pick him out like shopping at a market for a mackerel or salmon. She also suggests that you don't stick him with any sharp instruments to see if he is tender. Then she states if thus treated “you will find him very digestible agreeing with you and the children”.



 

 I found this variation of the preserving husbands recipe in a book published in 1887. It was called “The Jubilee Cookbook” On page 96 it can be found at the bottom of the page among 'Citron Preserves', 'Spiced Currents', and 'Quince Preserves”

 


Jubilee Cookbook 1887



A very similar recipe for preserving a husband was found in a 1911 cookbook called "250 Recipes for Everyday Use" and also another cookbook called "Food A' La Louisiane". One last cookbook I found was called "Recipes of Grandview Congregational Church" by the Ladies Aid Society. In one of these recipes it suggests that you;  "wrap well in a mantle of charity. Keep warm with a steady fire of domestic devotion and serve with peaches and cream."

And if all that is not enough you could find this recipe on a wall hanging or a serving tray.

I can assure you that in the almost 49 years of marriage I have never needed to cook Bill. Neither pickle, stew, boil, roast, jam or simmer him in hot water. I have not needed to compare him to Mackerel or a Salmon. I have never stuck him with any sharp instrument to see if he is tender.

Bill and I did not have to work this hard to "manage" our marriage. We have mutual respect for each other. We work together as a team. We support each other and most importantly (and somewhat corny) we love each other more than the day before. 

Wendy









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