Week 43
Prompt - Cause of Death
There are a variety of places where one
can find the cause of death. Many years ago the newspaper obituaries
would often say in their printed obituaries. An example of this is my uncle
Wally McLaughlin's Obituary.
The “in lieu of flowers” might shed some idea of how that person died. For example in lieu of flowers please donate to your local cancer group. Lately I find the wording even more vague. Such as Jane Smith died after a lengthy illness or Jane Smith died peacefully in her sleep. Such is the case of dad's older brother, John Peters' (1908 – 1976) Obituary.
The “in lieu of flowers” might shed some idea of how that person died. For example in lieu of flowers please donate to your local cancer group. Lately I find the wording even more vague. Such as Jane Smith died after a lengthy illness or Jane Smith died peacefully in her sleep. Such is the case of dad's older brother, John Peters' (1908 – 1976) Obituary.
Sometimes you find out from published
family histories as is the case of my maternal great grandfather who
married a Mueller / Miller. David Peters married Katharina Mueller on
January 5th, 1859 in Southern Russia. A Mennonite by the
name of Jake Buhler traced back 8 generations of Millers. He wrote an
excellent piece on the Miller family history. His third generation
discovery of Peter Miller and how he went from Catholic to Martyr
Hutterite.
Another source of cause of death can be
the family's eulogy. I have a copy of my grandfather's eulogy. That
is Andreas Krikau who died in Chicago on December 29, 1946. I may not know specifically how he died but that he had been ill for some time and had operations before he died.
One other source is by asking a close family member to the diseased. I asked my younger
sister about my grandmother's (Mary McLaughlin) decline and final
demise. Bonnie wrote a letter to me in 2017 where she discussed the
facts as she remembered. She remembers her being well and lucid when
she came to visit her newest great granddaughter, Lynn in the
hospital - June, 1987. One month later grandma was taken to the
hospital due to confusion and suffered a stroke. At this time her
speech was gone and one side of her body was limp. Over the next two
years Grandma deteriorated and was bedridden needing everything to be
done for her. Grandma died August 1, 1989 while waiting for an
operation to amputate her gangrenous leg. I did not know or maybe I
did not remember that she had a gangrenous leg. Her cause of death was more than stroke! Perhaps Sepsis.
The definitive way to find out the
cause of death is by the death registration of which I have both
copies of my mother and father's.
My father, Jacob Peters, died September
22, 1983 of Cancer. I remember the day that mom told us he had
cancer. I was living in Regina and mom and dad in Saskatoon. Dad
had an exploratory operation on March 17th. She told me
that the “luck of the Irish” had run out on him and that it was
incurable cancer. It was an all too short time between finding out
and when he died. On a death certificate it almost always has the
primary cause of death as well as any contributing secondary causes.
His immediate cause of death was listed by his doctor as “Secondary Adenocarcinoma”. This means the same type of cancer as the primary
cancer but at a different spot. His antecedent causes leading to the
immediate cause of death was firstly adenocancer of the liver
preceded by adenocancer of the pancreas. The approximate time from
onset to death was 1 year for the secondary adenocarcinoma and
adenocarcinoma of the liver. For the adenocarcinoma of the pancreas
it was 1 1/2 years. It notes that he had the surgery on March
17th as I mentioned above. What I find strange is that just 6 months before, he was diagnosed by his surgery. So I presume
based on the size etc. at the operation he had the cancer for close to
a year before he sought out medical help and was diagnosed. I also
presume that is why we were told it was cancer of the liver and the
first I heard of it being from his pancreas was on the death
certificate.
As an aside on perusing his death
certificate it lists his address as “422” Witney Ave and should
have been “442” Witney. That is a cautionary note that even on
legal documents things can be wrong.
My mother. Lydia Vivian Peters nee
Sullivan died January 24, 1987. The family use to say she died of a
“broken heart”because she never got over dad's passing. We were
not too far off on that cause. On her death registration her
immediate cause of death was “myocardial infarction” which is
commonly known as heart attack. It said it was two weeks from the
onset to death. According to my younger sister who was there and
witnessed the whole thing, she had a cardiac arrest on January 1st
of which 8 people were working on her to revive her. So in reality
it was 3 weeks prior to her death. Her antecedent causes was
A.S.H.D. which she had for 15 years. That is “atherosclerotic
heart disease” which is the thickening and hardening of the
coronary arteries. It is the thing that makes me take my cholesterol pills in order to prevent it. The doctor listed her Diabetes as a condition
adding to the cause but not causing her death.
Cause of death can be found if you do
not have the death certificate. Saskatchewan Vital Statistics does
not allow you to order a relative's death certificate until 70 years
has passed. I found this out trying to get my grandfather, Franz Peters' who died April 16, 1952. Just 3 or so years until I will try
again.
Wendy
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